Self Doubt

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Self Doubt

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You’re not good enough.

                                           The story sucks.

                                                                              No one will ever read it.

You might as well give up.

                                                     You’re not qualified.

 

For years, I have heard these whispers in my ears and many . . .many . . .more.

Self-doubt can be the killer of ideas, the defeater of goals, and vanquisher of dreams. We all suffer from it.

If you Google: “Famous people suffering with doubt”, you’d be amazed how many actors, writers, artist, and politicians suffer with it on a day-to-day basis.

After extensive research on the subject from tipsters to psychologists, self-doubt is a REAL issue that needs to be identified and stamped out.

As human beings we naturally gravitate toward negativity. It somehow makes sense to us. Let’s face it; the world can be a negative place. Watch the news for ten minutes! Our minds will remember the bad stuff over the good.

Why? I don’t know . . .we just do.

In dealing with self-doubt, you need to take control before it controls you.

First off, identify your doubt or insecurities. For every negative message you hear, try countering it with something positive. Recently, I read an article about a young actor, who wrote inspiring messages to himself on sticky-notes, then plastered them on a wall. Anytime he felt insecure or doubt, he’d read each, uplifting message.

My own vortex of self-doubt whirled me into believing that my story wasn’t good. I am glad to say, it has never stopped me from writing. Although, I will admit, I was ashamed of my first novel. It went from the printer, to a box, and never moved. Last year, I dug it out, and read the entire 90,000+word novel in one night. I thought: Hey, it’s not that bad!

If you struggle with self-doubt, you are not alone. But, please don’t give up. Your decision(s) can either compel you further, or cause a lifetime of regret.

Take care my friends 🙂

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2 thoughts on “Self Doubt

    rachelsanderson said:
    September 28, 2016 at 1:47 am

    Thank you! I’ve had one of those days today.

      hsquires9597 responded:
      September 29, 2016 at 11:16 am

      You’re welcome! Stay positive and don’t listen to the negative voices.
      🙂

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